I just loved this and had to keep passing it on! Enjoy!
"How do you think of your children? On any given day, would you say your children are a blessing or a burden? Here is a challenge to you…How are you?”…“How is the baby?”…“How are your kids?”… We all hear these questions every day. Do you know a mom who always answers something like this: “Well, I haven’t killed my 2-year-old yet, so I guess that’s good.” Or, “I’m just exhausted,” or, “Things are absolutely crazy – I am so stressed out!”Maybe that frazzled, haggard, bewildered mommy is someone you know. Maybe it’s you. I know I’ve been there. Here is my question to you today… are we bearing our blessings as burdens? Those babies that we dreamt of and prayed for, that we had so much fun choosing names for, that we counted the days to meet… are they burdens to us now? Those homes that we were ecstatic to move into… are they burdens now? That husband that we couldn’t live without, that we picked out the wedding dress for, that we cried and ached and waited by the phone for… is he a burden now? That job you needed, you wanted and prayed for, that provides food and clothing for your family… is it a burden now?Sometimes it seems to me like a mantle we as moms must carry. We must be tired, we must be stressed out; we must be harried and frazzled, we must be lucky just to make it through the day. Are we bearing our blessings as burdens? Are we tired? Absolutely.As moms, we know about the 2 a.m. feedings, the nightmares, the wet beds, the midnight curfews. Do things get a little stressful between PTA meetings, dance class, the T-ball game, and dinner on the table at 6? Sure they do. Are husbands always a joy when they get home from work? No way. Is scrubbing the potty, doing the laundry, and cleaning the high chair tray the greatest thrill we’ve ever known? Of course not.So how do we look past the burdens and see the blessings of our families and our homes? Do you know any women who would give anything to have a baby to nurse at 2 a.m.? Anyone who would love to have those clothes we are sick of washing, or that house we just can’t keep clean. Do you know any women whose husbands aren’t coming home?I challenge you to joy, to smile, to persevere. I challenge you to bear your burdens as blessings and watch as they multiply. And the next time someone asks you how you are, throw off that identity of stressed out, frazzled mommy, find your smile and answer, “I am blessed!”
Monday, October 26, 2009
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I loved that Leah!
You are a wonderful Mother and wife! (and friend... thanks for always being a good friend to me!)
I love this!!! I've been trying to do this in troubling times, so thanks for the reminder. I hope you don't mind me using this on my blog!!
Love this! Thanks for sharing it.
That was great a reminded every mom needs now and again thanks!!
Thank you for this! Wow, it really helped put some things in perspective for me. Great post! I am soooo blessed too!
Thanks for that! Love ya!!
That was soooo wonderful! I'm really grateful you posted that!
I really really really love that! Definitely something to live by!
What a wonderful post! I laughed, I cried. It really made me feel grateful for what I have. I am truly blessed. Thanks for the reminder Leah. You rock. :)
That is so good, I love that! The things that are the greatest blessing in our lives really do require the most sacrifice and sometimes stress. I guess you could say the more "stress" you have in your life the more blessings you have :)
Every mom needs this reminder. Being a mom is awesome. :D
Amen!! We all need to be reminded of all our blessings that we often take for granted.
Leah, I am so sorry I haven't written you back. You are such a good person to put up with my neglect. =) I can't believe you have 2 sets of twins. How did you manage that? =) Bridger was a twin. But I miscarried his twin at 11 weeks. It was actually difficult. I didn't know what I was going to do with twins, but after I lost one, I really had a hard time for a while. I am so thankful though that I have Bridger. It sounds like you know how the whole NICU thing works then huh? I am so stressed out lately. You know when you get to the point that they are so close to coming home, except a couple of things they have to achieve first. I'm there. He just has to eat. That's it. But he's tired a lot and they say nursing wears him out if I do it every feeding. So I feel like I'm in a lose lose situation. I just want him home so bad. And honestly I know with every ounce of my being, that if I were to take him home Sunday, that he'd be fine. They do so much better at home anyway. Anyway, thanks for keeping up on me. I truly appreciate your caring. Enjoy those babies. I'm homesick. I gotta go see my girls tonight. But leaving Bridger is hard. Hope you're well. Take care.
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